Dealing with death is
not easy. When a loved one passes away, one can feel the pangs of
mortality that come with uneasiness, depression and sometimes, anger.
Death, however, is believed by most to be just a stage in one's life
and all it takes is time to be healed from the trauma.
When a person dies, the
immediate family usually gets into a ritual or a practice depending
on the family's religion or beliefs. Some simply skip this step and
proceed with funeral arrangements. At this stage, family members
usually gather to decide which type of funeral is best for their
loved one. Families can hold a private or a public ceremony in a
local church, a cemetery or in a crematorium.
There are instances in
which a will has already been created to discuss the deceased wishes
with regard to the type of funeral that should be conducted. If this
aspect is not included in the will, most families choose to discuss
it among themselves or with other relatives so long as it abides by
their culture.
The will may also
include instructions about assets
and money. Some families may have already discussed this prior to
a loved one's death but if a will is released soon after the actual
death, a probate lawyer may be needed for advice and guidance.